7.17.2012

Gold and Black Dilemma

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These past few weeks have not been rough on me. My work stress has quadrupled due to a certain unscrupulous someone and sometimes, I just feel like leaving it all and quitting. Buuut, that's not really an option. So what's a girl to do when overwhelmed with so much negativity?




Quick remedy: Dress up and go out!







Black and Gold Sequin Tank Top: Style and Co.
Dark Blue Denim: Faded Glory
Gold Open-toed Slingbacks: Naturalizer
Black and Gold Dotted Metallic Clutch: SM Accessories

I'm not the type to dwell too long on problems. Getting angry saps out my energy and wallowing in despair is not my kind of thing. What's the use of getting huffing mad when the problem stays the same? So when I feel like I'm about to explode, I let it out for a few minutes and then I mellow down and find something to refuel me.


Usually, going out with friends to share a good meal, swap weekly life updates and trade funny real-life stories allows me to escape life's problems even if it's just for a few hours. Sometimes, meeting up and watching a DVD of a feel-good or romantic movie can also cure the blues. But most of all, ranting about problems while having friends sympathize with you (They're YOUR friends after all.) over a hot cup of joe and dessert or a steaming bowl of noodles will do the work. Yes, my friends. You're God-given stress relievers.

To end, let me remind you of this fact: It's no use sulking after office hours. You don't get overtime pay anyway.

Hope you have good vibes all week long!

Hugs,
Belated Bloomer

42 comments:

  1. Lovely outfit! I love the clutch :)

    Kisses.

    www.pollysboudoir.blogspot.com

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  2. hi dear love ur outfit! d clutch n tank are amazing!! :)
    how about folowing each other?
    im folowing u on gfc now. Hope u visit me n folow me back on gfc and facebook page :)
    xx
    priyanka
    www.fshn4us.blogspot.in

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  3. Just live your life & enjoy.....you look great girl!

    Rebecca
    www.redtagchiclosangeles.com

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  4. very nice clutch!
    would you like to follow each other?
    A
    xx
    http://epiquemoi.blogspot.com

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  5. Completely agree. . .when I'm stressed, putting on a cute outfit and going out would definitely help me forget my problems. You look fabulous! Who wouldn't feel good in a sparkly top?! Those shoes are gorgeous!

    XO Jenny
    www.crazystylelove.com

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    1. Yes, shiny and sparkly stuff scares the bad vibes away! :D Haha!

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  6. dressing up always makes me feel good! You look lovely in black and gold!

    http://www.navlandstyle.blogspot.ca/

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  7. It is one of the toughest things in the world to learn to leave work AT work! I used to obsess and stew over things and I was always in a bad mood at home! Now I allow myself a little venting and I shrug it off (most times). You are right- we aren't getting paid overtime!

    This is a great outfit for going out- comfy and sexy at the same time!

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    1. I know... Problems tend to nag me everywhere I go! But nothing a good laugh can't solve. :)

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  8. Hi there, I love the shimmer top you paired with the darker denim!
    Thanks for visiting my blog! Would you like to follow each other? :)

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  9. I hope things turn around for you. In the meantime, what a gorgeous clutch you have here, hopefully that makes your days a least a little bit brighter!
    Thanks for visiting!
    xo K
    www.lilieslattesandlace.com

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    1. Hopefully things will get better. :) Thanks K!

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  10. Indeed friends are stress relievers! I love your top and how you played the metallic colors, so look thousand amazing! Glad i found you from a friends website! :)

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  11. thanks for your comment on my blog! I love this top on you! Dressing up and going out is the cure to any stress
    http://justmeedee.blogspot.com

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  12. Definitely want your clutch. Super Cute.

    Tash

    P.S Thank you so much for stopping by my blog hope you stick around and follow.

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  13. Nice post, Abi! I totally agree with what you have said. I'd rather not pay attention to things that are not worth it. :) Anyway, thanks for dropping by my blog! Followed you! Hope you follow mine as well :)

    XO, Mish
    PS, Rire GCs International Giveaway on my blog! - Ends in 1 day!

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  14. Aw, I'm sorry to hear things have been overwhelming for you :( I know the feeling! And getting dressed up and going out definitely helps. You look so cute!

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  15. Loving the top - hope things turn around xo
    xo Krystin
    suburbanfauxpas.blogspot.com

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  16. you look so pretty in this glamorous top.

    wardrobexperience.blogspot.de

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  17. This outfit is both chic and classy- even for wearing a pair of jeans! Great way to make jeans chic- going with a classy top and some sweet sandals. Your loveliness shines again with another great outfit.

    johnbmarine.blogspot.com

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  18. So pretty my dear! ^^

    http://alovelystyle.blogspot.com.es/

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  19. Such a cute outfit and you look adorable in feminine look.


    Thank You.
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